When a woman or man lies to you, that means they think they don't have to change to have you. If they have the truth to tell, why lie? Because the "truth" they keep on their minds when they say something different is no truth. The truth is what even they themselves don't know. If they had it, they wouldn't be that apprehensive of telling how anything actually was.
When you're no reason for their change, they'll separate themselves and create a "saintly" version of themselves to try and deceive you, seeking their own desire.
You'll be nothing but another fool on their list.